You really don't. They'll snatch that little thing up and use her as a toothpick.

[always with the helpful information! that's joker for you. get used to it, wash.] Uh .. I guess you've seen the big ugly guys with four eyes? They're all pretty much Aria's go-to guys, and they won't keep from roughing you up if they think you're messing around. Even if you aren't.